am passionately dedicated to your empowerment,
expansion and success. I'm at heart, an educator~ so a lot of
the material you'll be reading on this site is very candid, straightforward
and controversial. My
hope is, you'll have an "Ahah!"
experience while you're visiting, and gain some headway
with the challenges you've found to be most troubling.
perspectives and concepts you'll be exposed to on these web pages
are solely my own~ and are not to be
interpreted as being congruent with nor reflective of those put
forth and maintained by the psychotherapeutic or psychological
have not worked as a state licensed clinician, nor has
that been my intent. Psychotherapy had always seemed too lengthy
a process, so I conceived and developed unique methods that helped
my clients resolve their pain far more quickly.
you might acquire worthy insights from my self-help articles,
my consulting work has not included psychotherapy, nor has it
dealt with matters of the mind. I offered unconventional, comprehensive
approaches to reconstructing clients' lives, by teaching them
how to heal and grow themselves. These methods were transformational.
They were designed to eliminate obstacles that inhibit joy, success
and contentment, so one could build the kind of life they'd always
book about how I helped my clients heal is finally available.
Think of it as a primer on Codependency and the core trauma wounds
which drive it, and block us from forming healthy, nourishing,
reciprocal attachment bonds. You'll likely be able to find it
as an e-book, but you can get the softcover copy of, DO YOU LOVE
TO BE NEEDED, OR NEED TO BE LOVED? on Amazon.
I have retired from my consulting work, and am no longer accepting
clients. I hope you might still benefit from viewing my online
videos, which provide powerful tools and strategies that can help
you more successfully navigate your life. Please do YouTube search,
for Shari Schreiber, M.A.
background trivia: I returned to school at forty-one, and earned
a Bachelor's degree in Human Behavior Psychology and a Master
of Arts in Counseling Psych. I completed a six year private practice
internship, and sat for both state board exams. I chose to surrender
my application for MFT licensure after a serious accident
in 2007 altered my course~ but remained dedicated to helping people
rebuild themselves by sharing life-altering tools I'd invented
for myself many years earlier.
attribute my wisdom and skill to substantial life experience,
acute intuition and a fierce, unrelenting commitment to personal
growth, emotional vibrancy and overall wellness. My return to
academia did not contribute to, nor enhance these gains.
may find literature about Borderline
Personality Disorder on this site, which has been an unintended
consequence of direct, hands-on experience working for more than
twenty years with obstacles like poor self-worth, which can contribute
to and perpetuate relationship difficulties.
you're trying to recover from a difficult relationship and you
relate to my writings, it's thanks to the many people
who've courageously shared their painful stories with me. My BPD
articles are merely transcriptions of all those verbal accounts,
and I hope they will bring you some relief, clarity and resolution.
website is not intended as a support resource for people
struggling with BPD. If you have this disorder or suspect that
you might, it's best that you redirect yourself to alternative
web content that may feel more congruent with your views and needs.
can easily navigate this site by clicking on the colorful links
at top. The following links will take you subjects that may be
of special interest to you; Anxiety/Panic
Sex Addiction - Attention
Deficit Disorders (ADD/ADHD) - Weight
Loss - Passive-Aggression
- Sexual Difficulties
Struggles - Codependency
and numerous other relationship issues.
you'd prefer to listen to my materials and you own an
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you can find an android verson of this type of software to download,
if you do a little internet research.
letters have been responded to within my Forums.
might occasionally be revamped and expanded to keep that information
fresh and vital. Save this site to your *favorites* and
visit as often as you like!
to the time constraints of publishing my books, and joyfully reinventing
myself post-retirement, I've suspended my website's incoming email.
Sorry for any inconvenience or disappointment this may cause
do not phone me asking for a referral to a professional who works
as I did.
I cannot help you with this, but I wish you every success in obtaining
the assistance you seek.
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radio broadcast, please leave your name and phone number on either
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my YouTube channel. My most fervent hope is that
you will gain something of value through exposure to my spirit
and essence within these venues.
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